Posts Tagged ‘divorce’

Being a Happily Single and Independant Woman After Leaving a Bad Marriage

Life sure is full of twists and turns, sometimes taking us in directions we never expected to go in. In the 1960’s, when I was born, little girls were groomed to depend on men for a fulfilling family life. Learning to cook, clean and be ladylike were the norm back then. Watching Snow White, Sleeping Beauty and other lovely Disney movies, we waited for our hadsome princes to come take us away. For me, that never happened. Looking fashionable and cooking gourmet meals for men just didn’t do it for me, somehow. I kept my figure, wore high heels and pretty dresses, had my hair done every eight weeks and did the whole Stepford Wife thing (I can make a kiler batch of cookies), but felt totally unfulfilled and worn out. My husband always found things to complain about, no matter what I did. I felt unappreciated and bored in the lifestyle I thought I’d wanted all along. Read the rest of this entry »


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For the Holidays- Grass and Gratitude

It happened again. At the holidays, it can grab hold of you and not let go. Uh? I know I’m talking crazy but it really is true. What? Okay, I’ll explain…

It started with opening up a holiday newsletter from a friend of mine. She and her husband and two kids just moved to a smaller town north of Houston and live the perfect life. I’m glad for my friend, but it really made me start wishing. I wish I wasn’t divorced. I wish I could just pick up and move. I wish I had made better decisions. Read the rest of this entry »

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